Understanding Relationships on the Autism Spectrum, a guide

Ico, (pronounced Ee-Co) is the Wandering Love Mystic and uses They/Them pronouns. They are the founder of Enlightened Consent Foundation, which is a nonprofit creating sacred sanctuary spaces for people to explore their sexual identities and intimate desires without being blamed, shamed, nor be told that they’re bad or wrong, so that they get to experience being seen, honored, and loved for who they are.

Ico is on the autism spectrum and over the last 19 years has learned how to create romantic relationships and experience consensual intimate encounters with dozens of people. 

Ico is also a 2 time internationally best-selling co-author of the love and relationship books: Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life and Ignite Love: Real Stories of Defining Love and Manifesting More of it in Your Everyday Life.

In February 2023, Ico launched a group coaching program for people on the autism spectrum who are confused by dating so they can create romantic relationships and intimate encounters that make sense to how their autistic mind works. As a high-functioning autistic person, Ico brings their life experiences as well as their 10 years of coaching experience to help autistic people go from feeling hopeless, unlovable, and confused around dating to feeling confident, lovable, and certain that they can easily create new romantic relationships and experience the intimacy and love that they want with others.